Saturday, March 7, 2009

Purple Hats and Pink Chaddis

To all the Wonderful Women In our Family -Achievers All

Just a message - we've read this often but we need to remind ourselves ...

Age 3- She looks at herself in her purple hat, and sees a Queen.
Age 8- She looks at herself and sees Cinderella.
Age 15- She looks at herself and sees an Ugly sister
(Mom, I can't go to school looking like this!)
Age 20- She looks at herself and sees "too fat/too thin, too short/too tall, too straight/too curly" but decides she's going out anyway.
Age 30- She looks at herself and sees "too fat/too thin, too short/too tall, too straight/too curly" decides she doesn't have time to fix it, but she's going out anyway.
Age 40- She looks at herself and says "too much to do, can't get it all done, it's been a long day, and I'm going out anyway".
Age 50- She looks at herself and thinks "I am just fine" and goes wherever she wants to go.
Age 60- She looks at herself and sees wisdom and laughter, and goes out and enjoys life.
Age 70- She looks at herself and reminds herself of all the people who can't even see themselves in the mirror anymore. Then goes out and conquers the world.
Age 80- Doesn't even bother to look. She just puts on that purple hat, goes out, and has fun with the world.

Maybe we should all grab that purple hat a little earlier.

Lets celebrate :

Kalai : Resuming her career with a new job !After becoming a grandmother
Chelvi : Resuming her career within a week of having a new baby
Sakthi : The single minded single woman in the family
Karthy : The first to immigrate to new frontiers
Lalli Aunty: Still shouldering burdens of family and career
Anandhi: Started her career so late and rising up steadily
Sandhya: Putting old stuff behind and bravely, positively facing a future
Dachu: First to move out of the state to Study and now to work
Gigi: Tried hard to beat family records with first baby

Come on, add to this list.

Dont' forget the battle axes chittis.. the real Liberated women of our family

1 comment:

kalpana said...

dear kal,

had to read this.
good.
the blood of our grandmother keeps us going strong.
defeats may come and go but we will go on from strength to strength.
and show the men in our family a thing or two.